Should One Marry?

Q. Should one marry?
(A radical point of view for Mind Body Soul freedom).
Answer By AskSwati.com Rev Dr. Swati Prakash Alt Med – Vegan Mind Body Soul Guide

In a spiritual discourse which I attended in the early 2000s a person asked this question to a male guru and his answer was completely vague and unsatisfactory.  So let me try to answer this question with yet another question.

Ask yourself this question:
If anyone truly loves anyone, would they need laws or governments to bind them so that one cannot escape?

Truth:

It is all control – Legally imposed.

A number of times I hear some women with stars in their eyes say that they really want to find a man to marry and have babies with.
But did you know that there is a reason why marriage is one of the meanings of The Devil card in Tarot? (And trying to be positive about something inherently negative will not help as I have learnt from solid experience over years, both of mine and of hundreds of clients).

Philosophically marriage is a control system of the Matrix. Just like animal farming systems based on breeding babies by using a female animal’s body. It is a dangerous system of bondage to external interferences in your own will power. Interference in your body, your mind, your magick, your free will.

People interested in marriage are often driven by religious or cultural beliefs:

• Man and woman must join in holy matrimony until death (western God/ Bible based) where a woman respects the man and the man loves her. Women were created by a God who is a He and they were made by Him with a rib of the male human, to give him company or a ‘partner’.
• A Goddess must have a God, in Paganism, or a ‘pati- parameshwar’ (husband- supreme God in Hinduism). She must bring wealth-luck, service and progeny to the family (like Lakshmi), massaging the man’s feet, cooking and looking after kids. Marital rape is legal in Hindu culture so far as it is a ‘duty of the wife’ to serve to her man’s needs.
• A woman must be under a man’s imperium to show the body only to him and dress modestly otherwise (middle eastern/ Koran ideology) and get less share in inheritance from ancestors. And man can have many wives and he can ‘enter’ them any way and any time he pleases as they are like his land/ property. He may also hit his wife if she disobeys three times and then abandon her.

In all of these we have seen over several centuries a clear and distinct pattern of abuse called – Control and Coercion. A woman will be first brainwashed with fairy tales, then made to consider her wife and motherly duties as the first priority while neglecting her own individual career, own home, family, friends and personal choices.

Having babies will further increase the control a male would have over a woman’s free will because laws will revolve around legal responsibility to both parents making it impossible to break free totally from controlling behaviour.

We already have enough human babies in the world who need looking after. We already have too many sexual demands and expectations imposed upon us by cinema, TV, music and press that encourage men to lust after women, and women to ‘pretty up’ and please men. Why get legally bound in sexual and reproductive relationships and make it tougher for yourself to be free of this masculine dominance and control?

A human being, man or woman, but especially a woman who seeks liberation or freedom of Mind Body and Soul is strongly discouraged from getting bound in laws and to remain focused on your main goal:
Total liberation from the Matrix.

You want to meditate and manifest a life of your own independent will. You are not a brainwashed person lost in the world and desperate for attention. You are a wise soul and everything you need is within you.

Neither believe in farming of non-human animals nor in the human farm or Matrix. Be Vegan (don’t make any animal a victim) and also liberate yourself – human animal. Be free.

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