Swati Prakash

Top Tarot Healing and Wiccan Expert

Category: Healing From Abuse

Articles on how to heal from abuse and violence trauma and how to identify and protect from such behaviours and personalities or patterns in life.

  • The Crucial Difference Between True Empaths and False Ones

    The Crucial Difference Between True Empaths and False Ones

    Not All Who Claim to Be Empaths Are Healers: Discernment in Spiritual Spaces

    In today’s increasingly awakened world, more people are identifying as empaths, starseeds, or lightworkers—and many are also recognising traits of neurodivergence such as Autism, ADHD, or AuDHD. While these identities may overlap, it’s crucial to understand that raw sensitivity alone does not make someone a healer.

    There is a growing need for discernment in spiritual spaces—especially among those who are truly here to uplift humanity, guide others, and hold space for real transformation.

    🔮 Sensitivity ≠ Spiritual Mastery

    Many individuals who feel deeply, have vivid dreams, or are easily overwhelmed identify as empaths or psychics. However, true spiritual ability requires more than emotional intensity. It involves:

    • Focused intent
    • Energetic clarity
    • Ethical boundaries
    • Consistent practice
    • Integration of trauma and ego

    Without these qualities, even those with potential may cause harm—either to themselves or to others seeking help.

    ✅ Traits of a Genuine Healer, Empath, or Mystic

    Authentic spiritual practitioners, whether neurodivergent or not, show:

    • Energetic Precision – They direct energy with intent for healing, manifestation, or clearing.
    • Trained Intuition – They calibrate insight through feedback, experience, and mentorship.
    • Grounded Presence – They remain centred even in spiritual intensity or emotional turmoil.
    • Clear Boundaries – They can distinguish between their own emotions and others’ energies.
    • Disciplined Practice – They maintain rituals, meditations, and psychic hygiene regularly.
    • Discernment – Knowing and protecting own energy from that of entities or unwanted spirits.
    • Accuracy – Guidance through own inner wisdom and verifiable psychic information.

    These traits arise from inner healing, study, and sincere application, not just from natural sensitivity.

    🧠 When Neurodivergence Isn’t Enough

    While some neurodivergent individuals have remarkable intuition, others may be:

    • Disorganised, unfocused, or overwhelmed.
    • Prone to misinterpretation of spiritual data.
    • Stuck in trauma loops or executive dysfunction.
    • Unable to commit to consistent healing or ritual work.

    Sensitivity may be the seed—but spiritual mastery is the garden that grows from effort, grounding, and intention.

    🚩 Narcissists Who Pose as Healers or Empaths

    A rising concern is the number of individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) or strong narcissistic traits who claim to be gifted empaths or spiritual teachers. These individuals:

    • Use spiritual labels to inflate their ego.
    • Isolate or shame others while claiming moral superiority.
    • Accuse real empaths or victims of being “toxic.”
    • Avoid inner work while demanding admiration.

    Despite their grand spiritual claims, they often lack the capacity for true self-reflection, meditation, compassion, or healing. Their work is rooted in performance—not purpose.

    🧠⚫ The Dark Empath: Empathy Used for Manipulation

    Not all empathy is benevolent. Some individuals—known as dark empaths—possess cognitive or logical empathy, which they use to read emotions, manipulate, and control others.

    Dark empaths may:

    • Use occult knowledge or spiritual language to justify harm.
    • Practice dark magic, curses, or energetic attacks under the guise of “justice” or “karma.”
    • Feign compassion to gain power, admiration, or control.
    • Prey on vulnerable or trauma-exposed people within spiritual spaces.

    Empathy without ethics becomes a tool for psychic and emotional domination.

    🧛‍♂️ Psychic & Emotional Energy Vampires

    Many healers encounter clients, peers, or followers who repeatedly drain their energy. Often, these are individuals suffering from unresolved trauma, depression, or personality disorders, including covert narcissism, borderline personality, or emotional instability.

    These people:

    • Pull you into endless emotional dramas.
    • Show resistance to real healing but demand constant attention.
    • Use spiritual help as a source of energetic supply, not growth.
    • Leave you feeling exhausted, unclear, or disconnected from your own work.
    • Devalue and use you as a healer for free work, or refuse to reward and praise you.

    They can derail your mission and prevent you from helping those who are truly ready to heal and evolve.

    🛡️ Boundaries Are Not Cruel — They Are Sacred

    As an empath or spiritual teacher, it’s essential to remember:

    • Not everyone is yours to heal.
    • Some are here to test your boundaries, not receive your medicine.
    • Compassion does not mean self-sacrifice.
    • Your mission, time, and energy are precious.

    You are here to support truth-seekers, sincere students, and willing souls—not to be drained by those who refuse responsibility or manipulate your kindness.

    🌈 Final Reflection: Discernment Is Love in Action

    Being a healer or empath isn’t about labels—it’s about:

    • Integrity.
    • Consistency.
    • Responsibility.
    • Ethical service.
    • Deep personal healing.

    The spiritual path is not a popularity contest, nor a place for unchecked ego or unhealed wounds to masquerade as wisdom. It is a sacred calling that requires vigilance, humility, and boundaries.

    Protect your energy. Honour your calling. Serve those who are ready.

  • The Secret Ways Narcissistic Abusers and Demonic Energy Vampires Operate

    The Secret Ways Narcissistic Abusers and Demonic Energy Vampires Operate

    Q. How do Narcissistic abusers and demonic Energy Vampires operate?
    Detailed Answer by Rev. Swati Prakash, Wiccan and Ascension Coach, http://www.askswati.com

    ***(Please save it and refer to this article often. No plagiarism please, reproduce on request and give due credit as all of the below is by personal and professional experience and not AI written or sourced from others). ***

    A key issue in Ascension is to leave the Matrix of control. This control is perpetrated by people from around who use various strategies. This is what empaths and kind people as well as Healers and Vegans (yes we are targeted too by ‘compassion’ seekers) need to learn.

    1. Narcissistic abusers and energy vampires chase you or find you as they are hugely after people (energy supply). They are predators from within. They hunt for people.
    2. They choose you for your Aura (your positive energy field which attracts them). Also they are equally jealous or intimidated by it which is why they seek to harm or destroy those who shine.
    3. They usually select people who seem brilliant, intelligent or beautiful (especially women). They even call us Narcissists because they have no idea what a Narcissist is. They falsely think that genuinely talented, attractive, popular and smart or good people are Narcissists. They hate the fame and good renown you have or potentially might gain.
    4. They are often after empaths, soft spoken people or friendly and giving people, vegans, and good witches. Because they know you are non violent and harmless and do not hurt, exploit or abuse others. (They think they can make their way in, use you and get away).
    5. They also choose people more successful than them, more talented or reputed beings including stars, in order to harm and bring down their personality, glory and self confidence.
    6. They actively seek out Tarot readers, Wiccan healers and energy healers who are capable and try to get free help from them in order to drain them. This is why many of us are single and at peace in our own space.
    7. Women are at a greater risk due to religious and cultural domination of men in most societies which makes those men as well as their enabling women relatives especially prone to being abusive, jealous and controlling. Marriage is usually manipulative and a glorified way of control in many cases.
    8. Abusers including demons and energy vampires believe in an external individual entity whom they call God or in multiple deities as if they were real beings and not personifications. They believe especially in a male authority figure as the creator of nature and do not understand how to respect nature as infinite energy that is neither created nor destroyed.
    9. Abusers and controlling people usually lack skills in Reiki healing, real positive magic and energy channeling and depend on other humans or non human animals or religious communities, spiritual circles or communes to energise themselves. If they are taught such skills the energy gets sucked out by them into a vacant cold blackhole as they cannot conduct it through and give it to others or to nature or the planet. They also suck energy out of nature or crystals instead of energising earth with their powers.
    10. They might also have dependencies on drugs or substances, specific foods or alcohol or on sex and emotional supply and cannot control or regulate their own energy well.
    11. They especially get pleasure by controlling others in order to feel powerful or by harming someone financially or in career or personal life by making someone feel less empowered or more answerable to them.
    12. Their aim is to ‘humble you’ or ‘bring your ego down’ if they see you being confident or succeeding or attracting audience, receiving fame or goodwill. This is one of their biggest features. They wish to destroy your power to reach out to the world. They also fear you if you are powerful enough and believe you can harm them by ‘black magic’ even if you are a good witch.
    13. They will try to take your time away gradually towards listening to their personal dramas or giving them personal attention so that you have less time and energy for your goals.
    14. They usually present themselves as positive or good people or pretend to be compatible and mirror you to build trust and a connection. Only strong intuitive and empaths will figure them out quite fast especially when they see the Narcissist taking undue interest in them or ‘love bombing’ them.
    15. They will not take no for an answer especially in friendship, business, projects, or sex. It is their way or the highway. Your wishes are not considered equally. They lack empathy.
    16. They will start saying they love you or start flattery or oversharing pretty early on even if you are not emotionally ready. They will try to make their way into your life. They do not understand boundaries.
    17. No matter how you say no or tell them you didn’t want something or express your autonomy they will override it and try to maintain control overtly or manipulatively (covertly). They test your boundaries regularly.
    18. People around might lack intuition and see them as warm, loving, empathetic snd charming. But intelligent intuitive know something is off. Over time you see they are discriminatory, not really a vegan who is against all exploitation (maybe just plant based for food), have misplaced ideas or notions, and sometimes are transphobes or genderists, sexist, racist, homophobic, or quite toxic. They don’t have ethics right.
    19. They are desperate for love or emotional or sexual energy. They badly need you. Empaths do not need anyone. We are happy to energise ourselves. We focus on our work.
    20. They criticise or argue unnecessarily but if you say anything even indirectly regarding how you feel, they might rebuke you or prevent your self expression. They can also spread negative gossip or false rumours about you to isolate you with ‘flying monkeys’ and enablers in tow. They get very chatty with them.
    21. Not all Narcissists are grandiose or project a sense of domination. Many are vulnerable or pitiable and claim to be trauma affected or broken and abused victims who constantly need others to ‘complete’ them and blame everyone else. Therapy never works on them.
    22. Not all are overt or obviously controlling or abusive. Some are sly or covert and often come across and timid, introverted, quiet, soft spoken or ‘subtly attractive’… and try to gain sympathy or empathy (suck energy) from others in a quiet way.
    23. Covert manipulations include backhanded compliments, cheating, lying, confusing others, triangulation, trying to subtly put you down, rejecting you when you deserve the praise or opportunity, preferring others over you after initially chasing you, playing hot then cold and giving you strange looks or criticism unnecessarily.
    24. Alternating cycles of love or praise followed by abuse or manipulation build a trauma bond because the victim seeks the good times to return periodically and hopes that they can turn it around by positive thinking and patience all of which fails on the narcissist. It’s a total waste of your energy.
    25. They will guilt trip you as a covert tactic to make you give more attention to them if you withdraw affections or choose to be strong or sound in your decisions or decide to keep them at bay.
    26. They will gaslight you to make you feel the issue is with your behaviour. You will end up questioning yourself and try to be even nicer to them.
    27. You will be trained to be their victim and continue being treated that way over time.
    28. If they don’t discard you (or reverse discard you by making you leave out of frustration) they will continue the relationship if they choose you as a permanent supply. If this is so they will probably make it nearly impossible for you to exit the relationship and will keep hoovering you back in again.
    29. They control your wherabouts, your choices and opinions, your wishes, dreams, career, finances, and might need to know what you are into, what you are upto, even in your free time away from them. They watch or keep an eye on you. Spouses, relatives, friends..obsessed with you, often in the guise of protecting you. Narcissistic parents control their adult children and seek the support of even their young kids, expecting kids to please them or be an extension of them. They do not honour boundaries and let you be free. They are intrusive.
    30. They can say they love you and till hurt you or use you at the same time. They do not understand non abusive and mutually respectful and mutually giving behaviour or fairness. Remember Veganism is about fairness and jusice not about compassion necessarily. Wicca too is about the same to not harm others or accept harm to self. The Wiccan Rede states ‘fairly take and fairly give’.
    31. They expect your forgiveness and unconditional love ❤️ and to make you accept their poor behaviour standards and inconsistencies or even their lower intelligence. Remember the part of the Wiccan Rede: ‘With a fool no seasons spend or be counted as their friend’.
    32. Their focus is to make themselves the centre of your life in any way possible or make you feel deeply affected or hurt by them or miss them and make them occupy your mind in any way they can.
    33. The core of the abuser is hollow or empty. They lack a sense of self or connection with the higher self and derive satisfaction from either being overtly rude, manipulative or covertly controlling or condescending.
    34. They also lack true expertise or knowledge but think they know it all or are great or good looking or ’empaths and healers’ when they are not trained or professionally sound (except in negative energy work). They create a false narrative or delusional fantasy or a false self image in their head about how good they are and project it in order to envelop their hollow within.
    35. Some additionally develop psychopathic and sadistic tendencies over time on top of their hollow core and narcissistic delusion to further their pride so they do not change or feel genuine remorse.
    36. They can suddenly exhibit rage or anxiety and controlling behavior yet blame it on something else in order to manipulate you into allowing it.
    37. They do not understand your reactions to their behaviour while making themselves feel entitled to what they do and get from you or get away with.
    38. Their aura gives them away. A falseness in voice or way of speaking or expression. Angry or sarcastic tones. Self important body language. Nervousness or anxious vibes. Fake smiles. Vacant eyes. Stupor or emaciated appearence. Sad look. Always looking for connection or sympathy. Controlling of friends, family and colleagues. Yet getting away with it by making yo be nice to them and accept them against your intuition.
    39. If you allow it the abuse or manipulation will increase in time, or get worse but you will be trained to get used to it making you even more vulnerable to more such abuse including from other predators. Remember they are predators and their species as a soul is dangerous and they will be so… no matter how much you try to protect yourselves.
    40. The only way out is to not just cut off but unplug or remove all energy cords not just communication channels and the prime solution is energetic. The worst ones or demonic beings require banishing or vanquishing spells to keep at bay. Also if you are shielded their negative energy rebounds on them at times while at other times they still break into you. Awareness is the key starting point for all genuinely good witches and empaths or healers in Ascension. Still, be quite mindful that the majority of us being good people are still targets and at risk just as a sheep is in a slaughterhouse. You are never to blame for not being able to protect yourself. Others also need to help you out genuinely and often urgently.

    Seek professional support. Learn energy, intuition and Wiccan healing and magick and prepare for initiation via http://www.askswati.com

    Blessed be!
    Rev. Swati Prakash

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  • Spot The Early Signs of Covert Narcissistic Abuse

    Spot The Early Signs of Covert Narcissistic Abuse

    Spot The Early Signs of Narcissistic Abuse:

    Article by Swati Prakash http://www.askswati.com (Energy healing and intuitive courses available.)

    1. The person has a roving eye or flirts with multiple people including you but does not commit and stays neutral. Alternatively they can get too close too fast and overshare or expect you to commit very early on so as not to lose you without you having your say. In either case your feelings will be suppressed and not allowed to be let out.
    2. Tries to lead you on to believing they are into you and pull out later and repeat the cycle a few times to keep you guessing. They want you to think you are this big prize you should be after.
    3. Blow hot blow cold attitude. Warm and caring one day and cold and indifferent another day.
    4. Make you confused by playing mind games.
    5. Triangulation: Bringing a third person in whom they express an interest just to make you feel jealous or unwanted.
    6. Manipulative behaviour: Trying to keep you on the side while they date others or hit on others. Also lack ethics and can cheat if they begin dating you.
    7. Try to get you emotionally involved by building a trauma bond: you may cry when they hurt you and then they suddenly treat you well to keep you wanting them and repeat the cycle to give you highs and lows.
    8. Breadcrumbing: They give you small presents or send you a drink or something of less value just to keep to thinking that maybe you will be loved in the future if you remain patient.
    9. They don’t like you looking too beautiful or glamorous except for them so that you don’t attract anyone else.
    10. They use you to boost their ego by showing you off and by flirting with you in front of others when you do look good.
    11. They don’t follow their heart or get too emotionally involved as if they are stone cold internally. But might want sex or special attention from you in order to use you.
    12. Act too important and treat you like someone less important. Say certain things to hurt you.
    13. Don’t compliment you or don’t return your compliments well. May also say bad things, insult or be rude to you.
    14. Deliberately choose you so they have someone with a good level of positive energy to hurt and destroy. They target successful or bright personalities.
    15. They lack self esteem and may appear vulnerable if they are covert narcissists.
    16. Their aim is to hurt you..they do not know love or emotional depth in the true sense but are in it to destroy a good soul especially an empath or a healer.
    17. Passive aggressive language to mock you slyly or indirectly.
    18. Always look at their eyes…they will be caught looking away or as if they are hiding something.
    19. Can really choose a vulnerable person to hurt carefully…so they find more about you in order to know your weaknesses. Also they try to know your strengths so that can turn them against you by talking ill of you and calling you a Narcissist by reverse blaming later on once they do abuse you so that you feel guilty for just being good at something or beautiful or intelligent.

    Remember their mission is to break you down. They are not loving or kind beings. It might be better to stay single than to be emotionally involved with a Narcissist. They are everywhere.

  • 20 Ways of Pinpointing an Abuser

    20 Ways of Pinpointing an Abuser

    How to identify a Narcissistic Abuser for your safety:

    As a Wiccan healer who has direct experience in dealing with abuse, harm, and violence in relationship life, I can help you identify negative behaviour and distance yourself from the same.
    An example is identifying narcissistic abusers. Narcissism is a superiority complex that stems from a deep lack of love and compassion.

    1. Remember that humans who are staunch non vegans are usually narcissistic people overall as they lack empathy and compassion for others and think they are superior and entitled, while ‘animals’ are below ‘humans: A separation based on illusion. Those humans who are normal are capable of learning how to respect animals of other species, as well as other humans, equally. Remember that those vegans who only respect non human animal rights, might also at times, be narcissistic or abusive towards humans and can harm humans, but that would be unusual. Sadly some altruistic narcissistic people exist who masquerade around as charitable leaders.

    2. Those who regard other humans as ‘lower’ to them, or less important, and try to harm to hurt others deliberately in interpersonal behaviour are narcissistic. The harm is a real one. A Narcissistic abuser has actually hurt others physically or mentally in significant ways and immorally so. Please don’t judge others as narcissistic just like that, without reason, or out of misunderstanding, as a Narcissist will opine that their victims were narcissistic.

    3. The Narcissist is delusional and usually pretends that others harmed them and brainwashes others into believing in their version which is never factual. Therefore it gets very difficult to pinpoint who the Narcissist is.
    Thankfully there are some significant personality traits that give them away.
    It is their aura, it just feels dark or negative. Even if they dress well or look well turned out, something in them is repulsive or off putting. Use your intuition.

    4. Their eyes give them away…it is the way they look, in insulting, angry, or maleficent ways, either sideways while talking to someone they hate, or narrowing their eyes to indicate their anger or meanness against the victim.

    5. The way their eyes become round, pop out, and they smile in victorious ways when proving their judgemental point to someone and while criticising others. ‘See, I was right’ is what they say animatedly. Their preoccupation is to judge others. Like they have nothing better to do. It’s always about people.

    6. The way they hang out with those who gossip and talk bad about the same people who they hate and the way they talk for hours against these victims. They usually hate good people or others who are normal, happy, beautiful, positive, successful, or trying to do well. They have a jealous mentality and wish that good people lose their health, wealth, fame, goodwill, or happiness, as they lack abundance and success consciousness.

    7. The amount of time they waste being grumpy and angry. Unable to change their mood or behaviour in a timely way. Sometimes for years.They lack a joyful disposition. Their smiles, if any are fake and not from within the heart. Their apology is any is also false and a hoovering mechanism to control you and keep you involved in their repetitive dramas.

    8. Their body language…aggressive movements, pointed finger while speaking, speaking with teeth gritted, upset tone, negativity, saying ‘huh’, walking up and down angrily, way of handling things around them as if they are throwing things, shouting, speaking as of they are scolding or irritable. They lack loving kindness, grace, gratitude, and gentleness.

    9. Their lack of sensitivity to how someone else feels, or what someone else wants to do. They go on doing what they want and lack intuition and empathy.

    10. They way they want to control events and relationships and the way they want others to schedule things as per their timetable, or want people to obey them entirely and not be included in decision making. You are never an equal. They are like the boss or teacher. They are in control and the world must revolve around them.

    11. Strong expectations from others to be ‘perfect’ and doing things a certain way instead of allowing uniqueness, individuality, and personal flaws, or mistakes. They are unusually intolerant of others.

    12. Tantrums and mood swings that can be explosive …and they blame it on others. They say ‘you should not have said anything to me’, ‘you made me hurt you’ or ‘its impossible to have a conversation with you’ or call you names by projecting their traits on to you.

    13. Reverse blaming is a significant aspect of this behaviour. They lack self reflection on their part in the situation. Therefore they make up a false narrative and stick to it. They try to get sympathy from others by acting as if they are being victimized, but refuse to see how they were harming or hurting others.

    14. Heart is not used often. They can be hot headed, rash, and bad mouthed. Pleasantness and genuine loving warmth are not their strongest trait.

    15. Condescending and disrespectful attitude reflecting that ‘they don’t care’, or ‘why should they care’, thereby minimising your worth. They are not thankful for you, for your work, your talents, your support, or your inputs, but expect you praise them for what they do.

    16. Lack of good listening skills. Talking too much and draining energy out of others, even if others seem to not be interested or are tired, sleepy, unwell, etc. They are just not alert to what someone else might feel, need, or want, emotionally or physically. At times they also take away money and your valuables and not just your time. But usually they are emotional and energy vampires who feed off energy of others.

    17. They will have a few friends whom they keep around by pretending to care about them so that they have some flying monkeys or enablers to spread hate with or to seek support from in continuing their behaviour. Some of these people are cunning themselves, while others are vulnerable and easily manipulated.

    18. They can be cheats in romantic relationships. They are never satisfied with one person and don’t display loyalty. They might want sexual relationships with someone else while being married or in a committed relationship. The person they are with is like a puppet or servant.

    19. They train people over time to love them, do things for them, expect bad behaviour from them, get used to their demands, to satisfy their needs, to be there for them. They might even have a generous supply, or a ‘harem’ to feed from.

    20. You will feel so much better when not in their presence. You will realise you were just ‘used’ to them, to having them around due to a trauma bond, and were infact used ‘by’ them. You might have even absorbed or reflected some of their attitudes, traits, or energy.
    You will see for yourself that you will indeed be a better version of yourself on your own, as if a negative energy has left you when you are not with them. A sense of relief and peace of mind.

    I hope this detailed article helped someone.
    For one to one help, tips, coaching, and advise over phone or video calls, alongside the wisdom of Tarot for relationship advise, please contact me via http://www.askswati.com

  • Narcissistic versus Empath Behaviour Explained

    Narcissistic versus Empath Behaviour Explained (Detailed Article by Swati Prakash, http://www.askswati.com)

    All humans have a need to be admired, look good in photos, and to be self loving by prioritising own wellbeing, success, and safety first. This is normal. All humans have a need for healthy self esteem, self respect, healthy body and mind, healthy ego (yes, ego is good if healthy), healthy boundaries, and self worth. All humans crave for emotional satisfaction and personal physical, mental, financial freedom and wellbeing. This is NOT narcissistic behaviour.

    Narcissism is the opposite of these things.

    – Narcissistic people have an inferiority complex or low self esteem as they compare themselves with others and feel ashamed. Therefore they seek domination, power, one sided respect, unnecessary arguments, infighting, sudden conflicts, and regular tensions in order to be in control.

    – They thrive on making others feel worthless. They project out that they are ‘better’ than others by running others down, and get into unhealthy or toxic patterns in relationships and at times get abusive.

    – Often they target those people who are empaths or healers, those who have a bright aura and good potential, as they hate positive energy and want to bring us down and suck our life force away. Those who are talented, well spoken, good looking, or presentable, successful, and honest, often have a few people who are jealous of them and take undue interest in everything they do, or stalk you and your social media, in order to start targeting the victims and collecting information. If you were chosen by a narcissistic abuser it is very systematic. They don’t select everyone as a victim.

    – Narcissists usually lack compassion for others, don’t have kindness, and lack empathy or the capacity to feel for others. It’s very hard for them to show genuine care for others, to respect them, to love anyone, to give anyone priority, to praise, reward in a proper way, to speak as an equal, and to appreciate others.

    – When at fault they often blame the victims and accuse others of doing exactly what in reality they have done to them. It is not uncommon for toxic Narcissists to call their own victims Narcissistic and toxic and they instead play victims and seek sympathy at the right time to get others to justify their unusual behaviour and support them. You can be easily fooled as they might have everyone fooled.

    – They try to slam others down, throw tantrums like small kids, use rude body language or gestures, grit teeth while speaking, point fingers, glare at others, make you guilt trip for no fault of yours, use bad language, show anger, criticize you minutely in a disproportionate way, find faults with everything, get violent at times, and hurt others deliberately. You never know what sets them off and will need to walk on eggshells so as not to trigger them.

    – They also give breadcrumbs at times to pull you back in, or hoover you in, or love bomb you in phases to get you hooked on to the blow hot blow cold, emotional roller coaster in intimate relationships. But the next phase is when the tension builds up and soon they lose control and get upset again for no reason until they explode. The cycle of abuse repeats often with the same victim until the victim wakes up and cuts off from them which angers them.

    – They can be quite manipulative in order to take revenge, cry and fake being vulnerable, discard others who disagree with them, run smear campaigns against other, have minions or a few selected people who they puppet around and control, and treat others like slaves, or as dispensible commodities because they never can appreciate anyone’s true intrinsic worth and freedom.

    – When they are done with you they move on to the next victim by first seeling fresh supply of new minions and targets, and repeating similar tactics.

    A good human being would let everyone shine out and be appreciated. A good human being loves, cares, gives compliments, wants others to be happy, gives gifts, shares credit for work, builds others up, rewards team members, has joyful disposition and a pleasant attitude in general behaviour.

    While humans treat others as worthless commodities or routinely use others in romantic or working relationships for sex, pleasure, jobs, labour, etc., we treat animals of other species as objects in the most horrific ways of exploitation and abuse.

    This is because of a lack of loving and kind hearts, being selfish, and displaying a tendency to be cruel if need be in order to continue your behaviour without the capacity to self reflect and change yourself.

    Narcissism is a very common trait among humans as we have been conditioned to be cold hearted, to obey rules of law or society like robots, or follow commandments of religion and books, instead of using our own heart, intuition, and sensitivity.

    We are trained to be insensitive, tough, struggle, chase goals, work like slaves, focus on things to own, consume or use, rather than to focus on other humans or animals in developing equality based mutually beneficial relationships and on love and kindness, in a system of economy which values struggle, stress, and hard work for money over joy, fun, happiness, and emotional satisfaction as a measure of success.

    While we are Vegan to not abuse and harm other animals, we need to also know that love, kindness, compassion are also worthwhile goals and to go for Ascension instead of staying neutral and stoically focused on justice,  non exploitation and non harming alone as the ultimate end goal. To raise vibrations higher, we must also learn Healing, kindness, power of love, chakra healing meditation, and positive affirmations in order to manifest better realities and live in balance.

    Contact me via http://www.askswati.com for regular training and Ascension support. Annual subscription available for one to one coaching.

  • Recognize These Red Flags Before Dating Someone

    Recognize These Red Flags Before Dating Someone

    Dating, and romantic relationship that you can rely on by Swati Prakash of http://www.askswati.com

    So many of us suffer in relationships as planet earth has been infested by unconsciousness. These are some people I would stay away from. What about you?

    1. Those looking for particular racial orientation or skin type. These are low vibration human beings.

    2. Those looking only and only for particular features, e.g. big blue eyes, blonde, long hair, or stereotyped beliefs (e.g. man always being taller, older, richer, stronger). Again very low vibration level.

    3. Any other kind of discrimination. E.g. ableist, speciesism, homophobia, genderism, gender stereotyping, classism, spiritual discrimination, as all these are signs of an undereducated and immature person.

    4. Those who are hidden liars and cheats with irresponsible behavior.

    5. Those who are Narcissistic. Please learn what it means and spot the red flags early on. There is so much to know about this subject. In a nutshell people who control you emotionally, make you feel they are superior or inferior, play mind games, guilt trip you, or give out hot and cold vibes systematically in order to give you an emotional roller coaster ride or trauma bond. They act abnormally and are dangerous. Sadly a lot of humans fit the bill.

    6. A psychopath. These would be violent abusers, and those who feel nothing for their victims as they lack the moral or emotional capacity. One clear sign is if they refuse to go vegan after full explanation or documentary footage. Huge sign. I have heard of vegans wanting to be open to non vegan partners and it worries me as this is pure hypocrisy and speciesism. You are not a real vegan if you still love a non vegan who refuses to change for animals. If you wouldn’t date a known serial killer or a racist, then why a non vegan who is adamant and unable to change themselves?

    7. Goes without saying that you must never date someone who doesn’t make you feel right, whom you have felt little or no mutual attraction with, no magnetic pull, no orgasms, no beautiful kisses. Could be that one of you are in it just for money or status, or out of sympathy or coercion, or because you were desperate, ageing, needed someone, etc.

    8. If they don’t treat you well and lack generosity, e.g. sweet little gifts, love notes, roses, taking you out sometimes, and if all this is one sided, or only when they need you. It’s a sign of a small hearted and unromantic person.

    9. Those who are in it only for sex. They lack the capability to love with the heart. All they see is an opportunity to use someone for satisfying their carnal instinct with no emotional depth. Sadly while growing up and in adulthood, I noticed many people were to fit this bill. Not my types.

    10. Cheap behavior. Not highly cultured that turns you off, such as the tone of voice, shouting, uncivilized, not well mannered, aggressive, foul language, loose morals, lack of civic sense, and so on.

    11. Those into lower quality cultural norms. E.g. a woman must do all the cooking and cleaning, or look after kids, not allowed to wear certain clothes, looking for parental permission, family income status, discriminatory religious beliefs, social taboos, etc.

    12. Losing sleep, crying, asking about the future constantly, and worrying throughout the day about why someone behaved in a certain way, or whether they love you, can harm your mental and emotional health. This is a sign of distress and incoming trauma. Go for those who relax you and uplift your heart, with energy and a feeling of trust and faith. Try therapy and ask for healing.

    Contact me on http://www.askswati.com for Tarot and spiritual therapy sessions and psychic chakra healing, including one off sessions, and a one year course of therapy.

  • Glossary of Narcissism to Protect Yourself From Harm

    Two types of people have mental health symptoms. One are those who exhibit difficult behaviours due to their narcissistic, unsociable and abusive personality characteristics or traits (as elucidated in this Glossary). The other are their victims who suffer from physical, financial, mental or emotional harm including Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, or Depression caused by such beings. While victims seek out therapy and support out of need, abusers are usually resistant to any interventions and often pretend to be victims themselves.

    Narcissism and Antisocial Personality Traits include a large range of behavioural symptoms that you can identify in your own dealings, relationships, or associations with these personality types or in day to day conversations with them. While Narcissists are demarcated by a solid ego and selfishness, Antisocial Personalities in addition include Psychopathy (emotional rigidity), Sadism (being happy if others are sad), and Machiavellian tendencies (exploitative and deceitful), that are less known in media and social media as opposed to Narcissism which is gaining prominence.

    An example of such behaviour traits include social apathy regarding the plight of victim animals in animal agriculture industries, and the behaviour of regarding human life as superior while harming other life unnecessarily and arguing against change. Another example is Domestic Abuse in which most victims agree that the abuser’s seem to have gone to the ‘same school’ as they exhibit such common traits and predictable patterns.

    While many people exhibit such traits from time to time, some people being disordered are marked by these behaviours to a clinical or sub-clinical level. Such personalities can be unchangeable and the best way to protect yourself usually is to identify them and to stay safely away, unemotional about them, and to go no contact if need be.

    Low Moral Compass: Not being able to understand what is good or evil in terms of moral values, kindness, compassion, being decent in behaviour, not hurting or harming others, but instead having own subjective basis or decision making or own set of rules based on convenience.

    Limited Empathy: Deeply lacking the capacity to think from someone else’s point of view when needed, but seeing things usually from their own limited perspective and standpoint rather than of the victim, or the one who is likely to suffer or be harmed.

    Poor Insight: Not being able to look within themselves or their own thoughts, behaviours, or beliefs in an objective or neutral way in order to discern right from wrong, or good from evil, but instead trying to be superficial in order to dismiss their own negative behaviour.

    Minimising: Making their abuse and its effects sound like nothing much happened and the victim is overreacting or being melodramatic or exaggerating something.

    Denial: Completely denying their own actions and its impacts on their victims, and lying that they did nothing wrong or that there is no impact of their behaviour.

    Cognitive Dissonance: Creating a strong yet false story or fictional narrative, oddly different than reality and selling it to themselves and others repeatedly, so that one is hooked on, overly attached to that core belief and unable to hear anything against it or change their patterns of thinking or behaviour.

    Projection: Transferring your own guilt to the victim by projecting your own traits onto them unconsciously, e.g. thinking the victim is at fault, angry, militant, aggressive, lying, and so on.

    Delusional Behaviour: To be completely sold to their own story in order to detach completely from truth or reality and to live in a false reality that has no basis in truth.

    Pretentious: Behaving more important than they are, puffed up chest or false demeanour and facial expressions, or acting cocky, using slang or accents.

    Seductive: Trying to woo you and charm you to trust them, meet them, listen to them, and to be engrossed with their world in order to relate with them.

    Oversharing: Starting a relationship by saying too much, being in love too suddenly, or taking things too fast, or getting intimate, over-interested or saying that they are compatible, right at the beginning, or starting at a very positive note to get you drawn in.

    Flattery: Appeal to your vanity or ego to make you feel obliged to engage with them. Praising you more than required, such as looks, your generosity, your intelligence, your kindness, or how much they admire you, or respect you, so as to get more out of you and to make you feel rewarded for being more sensitive and giving more time or patience to them.

    Sweet Talking: Calming you down by saying sweet words, sugar-coating their intent, or using diplomacy and psychological tactics to convince you that they are nicer than they actually are, e.g. saying honey, sweetie, my lovely, etc., taking you out to a dinner, or treating you well to get what they want.

    Cunning Behaviour: Trying to win favours, support, or deals, by luring you into their plans, and striking a negotiation when they are completely undeserving or wrong, especially when the victim is about to stop the association.

    Jargons: Impressing others with fancy words, vocabulary, words picked up from the internet or dictionary, so that others think they are very clever and smart as well as brighter than they actually are, for example in a job interview, or a date or meeting.

    Deceitful: Lying about their achievements, accomplishments and past background, so as to get a job, promotion, advantage in a social event, relationship, or victory in a battle.

    Future Faking: Overpromising what being with them or trusting them will eventually lead to and giving a false dream or expectation of reality when not really meaning the same, so that you get into bed, live with them, or offer them work, finances or any support that they need. Or making false threats or impressions that they are more capable for harm, more well connected and stronger as an enemy than they actually are.

    False Social Image: Using selfies, makeup, clothing sense, or style, fan following, likes, testimonials, or other techniques, to pretend that they are better than they actually are, or pretending to do things that enhance their social image or lifestyle, when they actually are only gratifying their own ego.

    Co-dependency: Making you so dependent on them that you cannot perceive a life or a moment without their support or relationship and cannot stand your own ground.

    Isolation: Taking you away from your supporters, family, friends, colleagues, or helpers, physically or emotionally, so that you depend solely on them and are unable to find any emotional, practical, or financial support or help when they abuse you. E.g. telling you that no-one really loves you apart from them, or to split your business partnerships or other significant relationships by making you feel upset with others, or make you move away physically from them.

    Alienation: Making others withdraw support towards the actual victim at the crucial moment, and align instead with the abuser, by manipulating others with lies or false impressions, so that the victim has no-one to fall back on. e.g. parental alienation by making children feel more connected emotionally with the narcissistic parent.

    Selfishness: It is always about their self gratification and to make them the key person, such as getting their happiness, career success, wishes fulfilled, enjoyment, travel, sexual satisfaction, and so on, not about yours.

    Controlling behaviour: Make others their puppets to do what they desire, or for everyone’s life to revolve around their plans.

    Narcissistic Supply: To receive something out of someone in order to fulfil own needs or wants, e.g. a vehicle ride, a job offer, romance, children, and then hop on and hop off a relationship or to move on to the next victim, next target, or next destination or goal or adventure in life instead of reflecting on what went wrong and on their own role in it.

    I, Me and Myself: Using these words a lot when making plans and discussing things with you or others based on their desire or ego, and overlooking the needs of others.

    Ego: It is always about what is in it for them, they are not giving, generous or charitable by nature except when they want to appear good for a hidden purpose.

    Give Breadcrumbs: Gifts that do not mean much or are less valuable as a form of abuse, or without much love or special words, or meaning, especially when you are trying to move out or leave or if they abuse you.

    Devaluation: To make you feel worthless and insignificant or unloved, and to put you down.

    Trauma Bonding: To make you long for their company or crave their time or affection by withdrawing and resuming the relationship.

    Humiliation: Degrading you or insulting you by calling you names or ridiculing you with gestures, words, jargons, or abusive behaviour, to make you feel you are stupid.

    Gaslighting: Make you feel you are mentally ill, psychotic, or crazy due to your innate behaviour even if they are the ones causing you to be stressed.

    Silent Treatment: Not talking to you and cold treatment as a form of punishment.

    Self inflation: Making their ego larger than life so as to make them focus on you and to make themselves the centre of drama or attention.

    Tantrums and Melodrama: To draw attention, as well as risky behaviour, suicide, sudden outbursts that are well planned.

    Covert narcissism: To make you pity them and feel sorry for them and to ask for sympathy as a means of getting attention.

    Grandiosity: Making themselves feel more superior by exaggerating facts such as their race, looks, family origins, caste, business, finances, intelligence, certifications, degrees, status, and so on.

    Toxicity: Being too positive in a toxic way or too negative or criticising, inappropriately, so as to make you feel unhappy about yourself and your life and make you stressed up.

    Narcissistic Rage: Sudden anger when you realize what they have done or seem to gather strength in order to express yourself.

    Revenge Tactics: Reacting against you or making allegations and complaints against you if you speak against their abusive behaviour or disclose it or report it. Or using revenge porn, further abuse, fighting at court, or other revenge tactics to get even with you.

    Emotional Blackmail: Make you feel obliged to do things their way or the highway, by making you feel as if something really bad could happen otherwise.

    Threatening: Lying or actually threatening to do something bad against you or your family members to scare you and make you do what they want, with physical weapons or without.

    Intimidation: Acting more superior and aggressive or dangerous in order to make you respect them and obey them and to dominate over you, or terrorise you.

    Objectification: You are not treated like a person with your own personality, wishes, and needs, but just as an object, or their property, of some economic or personal value or gainfulness to them. Treating you as a commodity to use, or even throw out when unnecessary, spent, or worn out, rather than as a distinct individual.

    Slavery: Using you as a slave who satisfies them or works for them, e.g. providing them sex, food, ego boost, arm candy, meeting needs of their family, working in their office, helping out others in their life, and so on, without any equivalent return to you and often against your true will as an obligation or taking you for granted.

    Exploitation: To use you as a means to an end, especially in a Machiavellian way, to gain a benefit out of you or your work without due credit or enough reward to you so that they receive the credit, result or benefit but not you.

    Lacking Object Constancy: Not being able to retain a bond or a relationship for a reasonable amount of time, even if one is upset or angry or traumatised temporarily and not giving people another chance or an opportunity to change their behaviour or learn something when possible and appropriate.

    Triangulation: Talking about others, so as to make you feel less important or jealous, e.g. family members, an ex, other friends, or colleagues, or someone who have a crush on them, or whom they seem to like.

    Divide and Conquer: Spreading discord within home, group, family, or colleagues, so that people are unable to resonate with a common purpose and the seeds of conflict are sown in order to harm certain victims who are progressively isolated and targeted slyly.

    Enablers: Those who allow narcissists to continue their behaviour by being apologists, and not saying much against them in a clear enough way, to avoid conflict or even placate them, or at times side with them, thereby absorbing their behaviours and letting abuse go on unperturbed. Not being violent themselves but also not taking a stand against violence. At times engaging with them and being peace-able or trying to make victims achieve a compromise against what is good for them.

    Passive Aggression: Tactics to devalue a victim without physical or overt violence by making sly remarks, facial gestures, inappropriate jokes, making a dig, or having a slight go at them in a wrong way.

    Minions: Try to use others to carry out their agenda, to talk against you or gang up against you and pull you down or to speak their words with full faith in them, such as fan club or those used for goodwill or even paid.

    Flying Monkeys: Sending others to warn you, threaten you or harm you, to do their bidding.

    Scapegoating: Treating one child or family member as less important than other, emotional neglect, as opposed to the Golden boy or girl who is valued and appreciated.

    Parentification: To make a child feel more responsible than they are capable of such as making them work, be your assistant, making them do things for you or care for you, and giving you attention and services, sex, food, company, or anything that an adult is expected to do, such as a spouse, especially when in conflict with a spouse.

    Reverse Blaming and Shaming of Victim: Suddenly becoming the victim themselves to get pity of others and to blame the actual victim of narcissism behaviour or any abuse.

    Smear Campaign: To spread false stories and lies about you and make you feel as if you are the bad person, on social media, in social circles, among friends, family, relatives, media and so on.

    Manipulation: Using lies to distort truth and to make others see their point of view with well orchestrated efforts to get everyone to support them.

    Ghosting: Suddenly disappearing on you without any fault of yours to make you feel unwanted or confused and to keep you looking for them.

    Hoovering: Trying to stop the victim from sliding away by sucking them back into the argument, making them feel like they are special, making them feel listened to or giving a false impression that things will change in a more positive direction henceforth.

    False Tears: Crocodile tears to make you feel guilty and to make you feel like you must love them and feel really sorry to them.

    Acting: Practicing what to say in front of the mirror, repeating dialogues of imagined conversations in the mind, preparing well for putting on a show, or behaving like a character from a fictional story or movie.

    Selective Listening: Not focusing on what you are really saying but only on what they would use in their own arguments or agendas, especially against you.

    Love Bombing: Rewarding you when they want to by showering you with affection, presents, hugs, sexual intimacy, kisses, etc., out of the blue.

    Entitlement: Wrongly believing they own you or are supposed to get something out of you or the relationship, whether emotional, sexual, financial, comfort, service, or otherwise.

    Idealization: Making a false expectation of what they want from your association or relationship ideally, so that you feel as if you may not be good enough unless you live up-to their unreasonable or unrealistic standards.

    Self Deprecation or Self Criticism: Making themselves sound very humble and gentle, or well behaved by cleverly using self deprecating terms or by criticising themselves covertly, to make you praise them as a form of reverse psychology tactic.

    Wearing Out: Making you feel so tired, sleep deprived, exhausted, fed up, and stressed that you have no capacity to fight anymore and simply accept defeat or give in to your circumstances.

    Confuse, Distract, Bewilder: To draw attention away from their own behaviour they would confuse others by saying something completely unrelated, or distract attention to a joke, or point out towards superficial or minor issues to make everyone go on a wild goose chase.

    False Apology: Saying sorry in a way that put the victim as the faulty person indirectly, for example, ‘sorry that you lack empathy’, or ‘sorry that you are not emotionally available to me’, ‘sorry that you do not know what you are losing’.

    Physical Violence: Making you fear them using physical hitting, injury, slapping, beating, strangulation, pushing, pulling, shaking, or any other physically hurtful behaviour with or without physical injury.

    Sadism: Making others feel hurt physically or emotionally, or cause trauma, or make someone cry, to feel better about yourself, to feel more powerful, grandiose, capable of harm, or to enjoy the sense of inflicting pain or sorrow on others.

    Masochism: Hurting themselves or attempting suicide, deliberately in order to feel more deserving of love, sympathy, pity, reward, affection, or for any other reason.

    Coercion: Making you feel talked into something you actually did not want to do but were instigated or commanded into doing, or being obliged to co-operate for fear of letting someone down, or making them insecure, hurt, or unwanted, including being coerced into doing something illegal or immoral.

    Sexual Violence: Sexual manipulation by making you drugged or secluded, sexual control or coercion by making you respond in-spite of not actually wanting it, sexual cheating or adultery, sexual intimidation by showing body parts or images forcibly or weapons, forced penetration or rape, sexual harassment by sexting or repeatedly asking for sex or intimacy till you are fed up or give in.

  • Healing Abuse and Trauma

    What is the root cause of mental illness?
    Truly, it is negative energy, violence, and those stressful world situations that cause them.

    What heals us?
    Kindness, good behaviour, positive words, action against negative energy, removing evil from society, helping victims, supporting those who need support, and truthfulness heals us.

    In case noone around is supportive, we meditate and find our own inner peace and will power. For example as vegan activists we get abused even more if we say even a small thing because people care more about their enjoyment, food, and about non vegans than about each other, or animals. We need to learn inner healing techniques.

    When it comes to mental illness or disorders there are two types.

    1. Violent or Abusive Personalities:

    Some people can be lacking empathy and be disordered as violent or manipulative personalities which means psychopaths, sadists, or narcissistic beings who hurt or abuse others. They may not always change due to medicines or therapy. They definitely need to be educated on how to behave but they won’t be listening and reverse blame victims. Sometimes drugs are prescribed if they get calmed down or less aggressive due to them. But they may not seek out any support or cure at times and function in society all around us, pretending to be good on the outside, but being poor in the ways they treat others at a personal level when you live with them. They rarely feel empathy for animals because they get nothing out of them and their only enjoyment comes from their own pleasure, food, fun, and entertainment which is their life purpose, even if it means ignoring the needs of others or using them towards their own selfish interest, consumerism, and to ‘win’ an argument or war for own ego to be massaged.

    2. Victims and Trauma Symptoms:

    Some people might be victims or might be empaths and feel ill or depressed because they feel the pain of violence, stress, and negative behaviour around them. If you have trauma or ptsd and depression because of your struggles or sadness at the ways of the world, we need some sort of healing. Some people use medicines, others prefer non chemical forms of healing over time. But in some cases if its emergency medicines may be prescribed for some time. Medicines do not provide the ultimate cure and may have side effects. In my case I found more harm than help in case of trauma or PTSD after my abuse since 2010 which was a long term very severe abuse that completely destroyed my life. But I recovered well through Affirmations and my own meditation and healing through myself. I found doctors and drugs to be useless when I was about to die because the stress became physical illness too, after a local woman from my city attacked me last year to cause me grave harm, but I came back through will power.

    Looking at people abusing animals, cooking and serving them, eating them, ignoring the plight of the victims, not taking action, harms an empath. It is not only one’s personal abuse. Its also witnessing abuse but feeling helpless that harms us psychologically in a big way.

    How to Heal Yourself:

    Everyone’s experience is different and only an individual who faces a problem knows how it feels and probably not everyone does the same things to recover, be healed, and protect oneself.

    One great way to protect yourself is to block negative energy, another is to banish it, and a third is to amplify your own positive energy through your work, to shine out even more, do better and support yourself till your last breath.

    All of these are called spells or healing techniques that are mind based or will power based, hence called magical because the work happens at an inner level. Of course, these are positive spells and not to harm others but to help yourself and eliminate bad energies or people out of your life and give them a lesson.

    An example is when I was being threatened with knife, abused sexually and assaulted or hit by someone against my vegan activism and my spiritual career to bring me down three years ago, I visualised that the abuser would receive a judgement and exactly that happened. Every word I thought in my mind was said by the judge exactly in issuing a court order. Therefore, we do manifest situations in life in order to learn who we are and to be aware of the power of our minds.

    Everything is about one thing. Realising that your mind creates reality in this dreamworld.

    Just two days ago, I cast a spell that negative and harmful people are leaving my life, and exactly that is what has been manifesting over the last two days.

    It’s amazing that the mind creates reality as I have witnessed how my thoughts made people new people appear physically out of nowhere through the third eye and say or do things exactly as I imagined.

    While it’s great to empower oneself in this experience of manifesting reality, it is a great idea to remember that it is all illusion or a dreamworld or the Matrix and to remain a good person from within (your soul), and be open to learning what truth is instead of believing in things from any scriptures or belief systems.

  • Be Free of Violence At All Levels of Chakras and Society

    Be Free of Violence At All Levels of Chakras and Society

    This article carries important information for awakening and protecting yourself or others including animals of other species as Victims of Violence or Abuse (Please save and read when you have time)

    Trigger Alert * (lengthy article with accurate descriptions)

    Violence and abuse are a series of controlling and coercive incidents that need to be evidenced, diagnosed as harmful and sociopathic disorders by GP or healthcare professionals, reported as crimes to police, categorised as punishable offenses by law, (even if against animals of other species), discouraged strongly in society and never be condoned, normalised or allowed as civil behaviour.

    These incidents may disturb your energy or attention field (chakras being key focal aspects of your life), giving you various stressful and trauma symptoms.

    Violence may include one or more of the following:

    1. BASE OR MOOLADHARA CHAKRA IS DiSTURBED VIA PHYSICAL ABUSE OR FINANCIAL HARM

    Hitting, injuring, pushing, prodding, strangling, killing, stunning, blood loss, inflicting unnecessary pain, electrocution, pulling hair or skin, physical torture, castration, circumcision or genital mutilation, threat to cut, kill or hurt, or any other physical attack, homelessness, loss of habitat, causing climate change, causing apocalypse, causing pandemics, causing heart disease, cancers, diabetes, serious diseases and disorders, financial scarcity, curbing your money, being unfair in dealings, stealing, corruption, bribery, fraud, taking away your funds, destroying your belongings, making one codependent, making one work as housewife or slave for free, enslaving animals, not sharing income with partner, monitoring your spending of own funds, dowry, destroying your career, lack of right jobs, not paying for those services or products that help others and the planet, prevalence of dangerous goods such as animal products, liquor, weapons or drugs in society, wasting money or time, spending on illicit affairs, not providing sufficient housing or welfare to child or partner, birthing child into this world forceably or as a slave without being financially sufficient yourself or in a difficult climate or financial environment, not paying child maintenence or alimony, bankrupcy, expecting young children or women who are pregnant or mothers of young children to work and pay bills or return to work after long gap or being kicked out of home, creating insecurity and mistrust, lack of equality, expecting partner to leave job or business for your sake or coercive relocation, making one feel helpless that this world is a terrible hellish place not worth living in.

    2. SACRAL CHAKRA OR SVADHISHTHANA IS DISTURBED VIA SEXUAL VIOLENCE

    Non consensual penetration or rape including marital rape and that of farmed animals, sexual harassment, sexual molestation, eve teasing, pornography, sexual messaging, unwanted advances, oral or anal sex, dirty sexual behavior or hygeine, surgery or procedures against your will to domesticate, breed, then neuter spay the victim, paedophilia, bestiality, forced pregnancy, breeding or farming human or any animal, forced prostitution or sexual slavery, sexual manipulation.

    3. SOLAR POWER CENTRE OR MANIPUR CHAKRA DISTURBED VIA MENTAL ABUSE

    Psychological harms or attempts to harm by insults, threats, cunningness, manipulation, derogatory comments, taking away your free will or choices, harassing, shouting, giving headaches or mental trauma stalking, controlling your movements, domestication, caging or trapping in rooms or enclosures, nastiness, scare and fear tactics, punishment, condemnation, loud music or fireworks, texts with horrific or violent material, using dead body parts of killed animals, causing PTSD or trauma, apathy and disconnect, mute audience, lack of support or concern towards victims.

    4. HEART OR ANHAT CHAKRA IS DISTURBED Toxic relationships, separating mother and child in human world and in animal farms or by breeders, isolating you from friends or family, forced contact with toxic parent, emotional narcissism, ignoring feelings of others, making one feel worthless, guit inducement, making you depressed or suicidal, mansplaining, lying, cheating, promiscuity, emotional blackmail, minimising or denying violence, puppetting one emotionally, treating as emotional slave, using people and animals for petsonal benefit instead of valuing individuals, sense of entitlement over the victim’s life and time, lack of generosity or love, lack of healthy social relationships, lack of healthy boundaries, no heartfelt or geuine connections, expecting people to be dressed up, apply makeup, turn up to work, and smile and not be authentic, robotic society that lacks empathy, valuing money and sex but not valuing individuals, making animals meat and other animal products of economic value or enjoyment, lack of basic kindness or compassion.

    5. THROAT OR VISHUDH CHAKRA IS HARMED BY VERBAL ABUSE

    Taking away your freedom of expression, hiding evidence, minimising risks, not wanting to see or hear about abuse of victims in order to keep it hidden, taking away your voice to protest, making you repeat the description of trauma, refusing to understand, refusing to listen, arguments, unhealthy debates, not having logical clarity or consistency in argument, logical fallacies in arguments, circular arguments, nor giving you a deserved platform, criticising you, bullying and intimidation, not giving a chance to have your truthful say, cutting you off online or social media or other media unreasonably, blocking useful content irresponsibly, misreporting you, avoiding taking responsibility or ghosting, making you apologise unnecessarily, reverse blaming, accusing and shaming victims, making you explain yourself when it is not your fault, making you react or shout out due to their behaviour and blaming you instead, setting you up, not allowing self defense, not giving prompt and adequate legal support to victims, abject neutrality in ignoring victim’s plight or sentience.

    6. THIRD EYE OR AGYA CHAKRA IS DAMAGED BY PSYCHIC HARM

    Hiring experts to inflict psychic damage or personally using black magic, tantra, aghora, evil forms of witchcraft, sending nightmares to you or inception or extraction in dreams or reality, making you feel at risk of such harm, voodoo dolls, cursing, keeping negative articles around you, or giving articles that are having negative energy to you deliberately, making you feel possessed demonically, sending obsessive thoughts to you, discouraging ESP or magical powers or denying that humans or other animals have them in order to control your growth and development, making you feel paranormal or intuitive work is worthless or fraud, dismissing your intuition or awareness.

    7. CROWN CHAKRA OR SAHASRAR IS HARMED BY SPIRITUAL ABUSE

    Assuming God is a human or other species person or someone special or dangerous to be worshipped or obeyed, making you follow prevalent norms, keeping evil religious texts around or giving them to you, imposing religious authorities, not allowing you to question reality, being in simulation but not allowed to break free or find truth about the universe on one’s own, not teaching law of attraction or reality of universe to children, ridiculing your research into truth, making you a puppet in the Matrix like simulation, Truman show or architectured dreamworld, religious condemnation or dominating behaviour making you obey them and be a slave, using religious judgment, accusing of religious blasphemy, witch hunting or persecution of innocent ones, not giving reasonable freedom of belief in free will or liberation as long as it harms none.

    These harmful violent incidents are based on mental and personality disorder behaviour patterns that are popular, noticable worldwide and inculcated since childhood causing Narcissistic, Psychopathic, Borderline, Sadistic, Masochistic, Machiavillien, Delusional, and other antisocial traits within almost 99.99 percent of humans and causing humans to destroy own wellbeing, children’s life, family, natural environment, animals and trees.

    Lack of awareness is the main cause of these tendencies continuing on in society. Kindly share this article and prevent the further propagation of these crimes.

  • Domestic Violence, Rape and Animal Slaughter: A Close Connection Explained!

    Normally the terms murder, serial killer, and rape, remind us of horror movie scenes where humans are victims. But could there be a possibility of acknowledging innocent animals as victims of serious crimes?

    The issue here is the deep connection between two similarly violent, graphic crimes and the need for immediate legislations to ban the latter:

    1. Objectification of a human being who is abused within four walls of the house. As some serial killers confess in jail, ‘they had a feeling of total control over someone’ as they raped and killed them or chopped off their body parts. These actions are regarded as a crime in law and the assailants usually diagnosed as mentally ill delinquents or delusional psychopaths.

    2. The common practice of objectification of animals other than humans, being turned into food after being cruelly chopped off, their lives, their babies, their breastmilk and eggs, being taken away against their free will. This too is a kind of domestic violence, rape and murder based on power and control. These crimes are shamelessly authorised as a respectable business, protected in law without any justification, as our body and mind are better being Vegan and we do not need animal products at all.

    Let us take a closer look with the following examples to elucidate the similar patterns of human as well as other animal abuse.

    A much talked about case having surfaced recently is that of The 5 star non vegan meat chef, Delhi Butcher, Aftab Poonawala case in which he sliced up his partner and kept her meat in a refrigerator. He had masterminded the crime on learning about similar crimes and acquiring meat butchering skills.

    The cruel connection between animal meat and psychopathic crimes is seldom acknowledged.

    This is not the first time a human was turned to meat and refrigerated. Sex based violent crimes including serial murders and serial rapes across the world have included cannibalism with the abuser keeping chopped body parts in the fridge freezers, eating parts of the body (Jeffrey Dahmer, the Butcher of Milwaukee).

    Another serial offender used the skin of victims to manufacture leather objects such as gloves, bags, clothes or shoes (Edward Theodore Gein, the Plainfield Butcher who worked in his family farm and tannery, and having witnessed his parents slaughtering pigs since childhood).

    The infamous and anonymous ‘Jack the Ripper‘ of London is theorised to having been a slaughterhouse worker too as he carefully disemboweled female victims of their internal organs and even ate them at times.

    What is the difference between murder of a human and that of a cow, dog, pig, sheep, fish or bird, when clearly all animals are sentient and feel sorrow, terror, pain and fear and clearly value their life?

    Rape of human females,outside of marriage is reported as a crime and condemned in media news features, especially if it is linked with severe physical injuries or murder. New Delhi was shamed as the rape capital of the world with several notable incidents repeated time and again in media including the very horrific Nirbhaya gang rape on a city bus in 2012 in which metal rods were inserted in the female’s private parts, causing fatal injuries. In Dec 2022 the news of a little 5 year old girl raped in a Bhalswa Dairy in Delhi was in media after she was operated upon owing to injuries in her private parts.

    But did you know that Dairy industry is also a rape industry based on making females forcibly pregnant by inserting metal rods into her vagina and fisting her anus, to impregnate her and ending up controlling her life for her milk?

    The Cruel Dairy Industry of Rape, explained by Erin Janus on YouTube

    Arguably all animal farming involves sexual abuse of a female, and domestic violence against the entire family by the farmer and slaughter workers. Ironically the process is termed ‘animal husbandry’, the pathetic equation between marital rape and subjugation of an unwilling female, forced to bear babies after babies serially upon repeated insemination at the hands of the farmer. The children are seperated from mothers and either butchered for economic gain as ‘meat’ or similarly groomed to be slaves to bear babies as the cycle repeats itself over and over infinitely.

    While India is amazing for banning slaughter and trade of animal meat and eggs in a few notable Hindu cities and towns, Dairy industry in each part of the world continues to rape females, neglect the babies and steal breastmilk away for human consumption unnecessarily just for gluttony, when it is a bovine secretion meant for baby cows, and unfit for human consumption.

    Similarly while murder of female victims is condemned in no unclear terms, rape within domestic walls or marriage is regarded as a legal phenomena with no respect to a woman’s rights over her own body in India, if the assailant is her husband and she is above 15 years of age. In stark contrast, within UK law, marital rape is a crime with sentence of upto lifetime.

    Females are seen in some cultures as things owned by men and subject to wishes and commandments of their male dominators in patriarchal cultures. They are expected to love the men who conquer them and expect them to serve food, sex and children to them, while never attracting attention of any man as per their own free will. Burqua, veil and abaya culture is one example in Islam where a curious dress code is imposed. In some Hindu communities too, a woman’s body displayed willingly in a sexually attractive way is frowned upon even in the year 2023. An example is a silly controversy ahead of the release of a big budget Bollywood movie due to a ‘saffron’ clad bikini scene being linked with ‘Hinduism’.

    If we must set a good example of ‘ahimsa’ or non violence, marital rape as well as ugly Dairy industry need to be terminated and illegalised urgently alongside animal slaughter or murder which must also be banned as soon as possible. Stop the control of the female body, forcing females to belong to men and become mothers at the will of men, or to have their life, behaviour and free will controlled to serve various vested economic and power based interests of their abusers. This includes the female victims of the Dairy and Animal Farming Industries and their family members who are abused and graphically murdered, unjustifiably.