Swati Prakash

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  • The Secret Ways Narcissistic Abusers and Demonic Energy Vampires Operate

    The Secret Ways Narcissistic Abusers and Demonic Energy Vampires Operate

    Q. How do Narcissistic abusers and demonic Energy Vampires operate?
    Detailed Answer by Rev. Swati Prakash, Wiccan and Ascension Coach, http://www.askswati.com

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    A key issue in Ascension is to leave the Matrix of control. This control is perpetrated by people from around who use various strategies. This is what empaths and kind people as well as Healers and Vegans (yes we are targeted too by ‘compassion’ seekers) need to learn.

    1. Narcissistic abusers and energy vampires chase you or find you as they are hugely after people (energy supply). They are predators from within. They hunt for people.
    2. They choose you for your Aura (your positive energy field which attracts them). Also they are equally jealous or intimidated by it which is why they seek to harm or destroy those who shine.
    3. They usually select people who seem brilliant, intelligent or beautiful (especially women). They even call us Narcissists because they have no idea what a Narcissist is. They falsely think that genuinely talented, attractive, popular and smart or good people are Narcissists. They hate the fame and good renown you have or potentially might gain.
    4. They are often after empaths, soft spoken people or friendly and giving people, vegans, and good witches. Because they know you are non violent and harmless and do not hurt, exploit or abuse others. (They think they can make their way in, use you and get away).
    5. They also choose people more successful than them, more talented or reputed beings including stars, in order to harm and bring down their personality, glory and self confidence.
    6. They actively seek out Tarot readers, Wiccan healers and energy healers who are capable and try to get free help from them in order to drain them. This is why many of us are single and at peace in our own space.
    7. Women are at a greater risk due to religious and cultural domination of men in most societies which makes those men as well as their enabling women relatives especially prone to being abusive, jealous and controlling. Marriage is usually manipulative and a glorified way of control in many cases.
    8. Abusers including demons and energy vampires believe in an external individual entity whom they call God or in multiple deities as if they were real beings and not personifications. They believe especially in a male authority figure as the creator of nature and do not understand how to respect nature as infinite energy that is neither created nor destroyed.
    9. Abusers and controlling people usually lack skills in Reiki healing, real positive magic and energy channeling and depend on other humans or non human animals or religious communities, spiritual circles or communes to energise themselves. If they are taught such skills the energy gets sucked out by them into a vacant cold blackhole as they cannot conduct it through and give it to others or to nature or the planet. They also suck energy out of nature or crystals instead of energising earth with their powers.
    10. They might also have dependencies on drugs or substances, specific foods or alcohol or on sex and emotional supply and cannot control or regulate their own energy well.
    11. They especially get pleasure by controlling others in order to feel powerful or by harming someone financially or in career or personal life by making someone feel less empowered or more answerable to them.
    12. Their aim is to ‘humble you’ or ‘bring your ego down’ if they see you being confident or succeeding or attracting audience, receiving fame or goodwill. This is one of their biggest features. They wish to destroy your power to reach out to the world. They also fear you if you are powerful enough and believe you can harm them by ‘black magic’ even if you are a good witch.
    13. They will try to take your time away gradually towards listening to their personal dramas or giving them personal attention so that you have less time and energy for your goals.
    14. They usually present themselves as positive or good people or pretend to be compatible and mirror you to build trust and a connection. Only strong intuitive and empaths will figure them out quite fast especially when they see the Narcissist taking undue interest in them or ‘love bombing’ them.
    15. They will not take no for an answer especially in friendship, business, projects, or sex. It is their way or the highway. Your wishes are not considered equally. They lack empathy.
    16. They will start saying they love you or start flattery or oversharing pretty early on even if you are not emotionally ready. They will try to make their way into your life. They do not understand boundaries.
    17. No matter how you say no or tell them you didn’t want something or express your autonomy they will override it and try to maintain control overtly or manipulatively (covertly). They test your boundaries regularly.
    18. People around might lack intuition and see them as warm, loving, empathetic snd charming. But intelligent intuitive know something is off. Over time you see they are discriminatory, not really a vegan who is against all exploitation (maybe just plant based for food), have misplaced ideas or notions, and sometimes are transphobes or genderists, sexist, racist, homophobic, or quite toxic. They don’t have ethics right.
    19. They are desperate for love or emotional or sexual energy. They badly need you. Empaths do not need anyone. We are happy to energise ourselves. We focus on our work.
    20. They criticise or argue unnecessarily but if you say anything even indirectly regarding how you feel, they might rebuke you or prevent your self expression. They can also spread negative gossip or false rumours about you to isolate you with ‘flying monkeys’ and enablers in tow. They get very chatty with them.
    21. Not all Narcissists are grandiose or project a sense of domination. Many are vulnerable or pitiable and claim to be trauma affected or broken and abused victims who constantly need others to ‘complete’ them and blame everyone else. Therapy never works on them.
    22. Not all are overt or obviously controlling or abusive. Some are sly or covert and often come across and timid, introverted, quiet, soft spoken or ‘subtly attractive’… and try to gain sympathy or empathy (suck energy) from others in a quiet way.
    23. Covert manipulations include backhanded compliments, cheating, lying, confusing others, triangulation, trying to subtly put you down, rejecting you when you deserve the praise or opportunity, preferring others over you after initially chasing you, playing hot then cold and giving you strange looks or criticism unnecessarily.
    24. Alternating cycles of love or praise followed by abuse or manipulation build a trauma bond because the victim seeks the good times to return periodically and hopes that they can turn it around by positive thinking and patience all of which fails on the narcissist. It’s a total waste of your energy.
    25. They will guilt trip you as a covert tactic to make you give more attention to them if you withdraw affections or choose to be strong or sound in your decisions or decide to keep them at bay.
    26. They will gaslight you to make you feel the issue is with your behaviour. You will end up questioning yourself and try to be even nicer to them.
    27. You will be trained to be their victim and continue being treated that way over time.
    28. If they don’t discard you (or reverse discard you by making you leave out of frustration) they will continue the relationship if they choose you as a permanent supply. If this is so they will probably make it nearly impossible for you to exit the relationship and will keep hoovering you back in again.
    29. They control your wherabouts, your choices and opinions, your wishes, dreams, career, finances, and might need to know what you are into, what you are upto, even in your free time away from them. They watch or keep an eye on you. Spouses, relatives, friends..obsessed with you, often in the guise of protecting you. Narcissistic parents control their adult children and seek the support of even their young kids, expecting kids to please them or be an extension of them. They do not honour boundaries and let you be free. They are intrusive.
    30. They can say they love you and till hurt you or use you at the same time. They do not understand non abusive and mutually respectful and mutually giving behaviour or fairness. Remember Veganism is about fairness and jusice not about compassion necessarily. Wicca too is about the same to not harm others or accept harm to self. The Wiccan Rede states ‘fairly take and fairly give’.
    31. They expect your forgiveness and unconditional love ❤️ and to make you accept their poor behaviour standards and inconsistencies or even their lower intelligence. Remember the part of the Wiccan Rede: ‘With a fool no seasons spend or be counted as their friend’.
    32. Their focus is to make themselves the centre of your life in any way possible or make you feel deeply affected or hurt by them or miss them and make them occupy your mind in any way they can.
    33. The core of the abuser is hollow or empty. They lack a sense of self or connection with the higher self and derive satisfaction from either being overtly rude, manipulative or covertly controlling or condescending.
    34. They also lack true expertise or knowledge but think they know it all or are great or good looking or ’empaths and healers’ when they are not trained or professionally sound (except in negative energy work). They create a false narrative or delusional fantasy or a false self image in their head about how good they are and project it in order to envelop their hollow within.
    35. Some additionally develop psychopathic and sadistic tendencies over time on top of their hollow core and narcissistic delusion to further their pride so they do not change or feel genuine remorse.
    36. They can suddenly exhibit rage or anxiety and controlling behavior yet blame it on something else in order to manipulate you into allowing it.
    37. They do not understand your reactions to their behaviour while making themselves feel entitled to what they do and get from you or get away with.
    38. Their aura gives them away. A falseness in voice or way of speaking or expression. Angry or sarcastic tones. Self important body language. Nervousness or anxious vibes. Fake smiles. Vacant eyes. Stupor or emaciated appearence. Sad look. Always looking for connection or sympathy. Controlling of friends, family and colleagues. Yet getting away with it by making yo be nice to them and accept them against your intuition.
    39. If you allow it the abuse or manipulation will increase in time, or get worse but you will be trained to get used to it making you even more vulnerable to more such abuse including from other predators. Remember they are predators and their species as a soul is dangerous and they will be so… no matter how much you try to protect yourselves.
    40. The only way out is to not just cut off but unplug or remove all energy cords not just communication channels and the prime solution is energetic. The worst ones or demonic beings require banishing or vanquishing spells to keep at bay. Also if you are shielded their negative energy rebounds on them at times while at other times they still break into you. Awareness is the key starting point for all genuinely good witches and empaths or healers in Ascension. Still, be quite mindful that the majority of us being good people are still targets and at risk just as a sheep is in a slaughterhouse. You are never to blame for not being able to protect yourself. Others also need to help you out genuinely and often urgently.

    Seek professional support. Learn energy, intuition and Wiccan healing and magick and prepare for initiation via http://www.askswati.com

    Blessed be!
    Rev. Swati Prakash

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  • 20 Ways of Pinpointing an Abuser

    20 Ways of Pinpointing an Abuser

    How to identify a Narcissistic Abuser for your safety:

    As a Wiccan healer who has direct experience in dealing with abuse, harm, and violence in relationship life, I can help you identify negative behaviour and distance yourself from the same.
    An example is identifying narcissistic abusers. Narcissism is a superiority complex that stems from a deep lack of love and compassion.

    1. Remember that humans who are staunch non vegans are usually narcissistic people overall as they lack empathy and compassion for others and think they are superior and entitled, while ‘animals’ are below ‘humans: A separation based on illusion. Those humans who are normal are capable of learning how to respect animals of other species, as well as other humans, equally. Remember that those vegans who only respect non human animal rights, might also at times, be narcissistic or abusive towards humans and can harm humans, but that would be unusual. Sadly some altruistic narcissistic people exist who masquerade around as charitable leaders.

    2. Those who regard other humans as ‘lower’ to them, or less important, and try to harm to hurt others deliberately in interpersonal behaviour are narcissistic. The harm is a real one. A Narcissistic abuser has actually hurt others physically or mentally in significant ways and immorally so. Please don’t judge others as narcissistic just like that, without reason, or out of misunderstanding, as a Narcissist will opine that their victims were narcissistic.

    3. The Narcissist is delusional and usually pretends that others harmed them and brainwashes others into believing in their version which is never factual. Therefore it gets very difficult to pinpoint who the Narcissist is.
    Thankfully there are some significant personality traits that give them away.
    It is their aura, it just feels dark or negative. Even if they dress well or look well turned out, something in them is repulsive or off putting. Use your intuition.

    4. Their eyes give them away…it is the way they look, in insulting, angry, or maleficent ways, either sideways while talking to someone they hate, or narrowing their eyes to indicate their anger or meanness against the victim.

    5. The way their eyes become round, pop out, and they smile in victorious ways when proving their judgemental point to someone and while criticising others. ‘See, I was right’ is what they say animatedly. Their preoccupation is to judge others. Like they have nothing better to do. It’s always about people.

    6. The way they hang out with those who gossip and talk bad about the same people who they hate and the way they talk for hours against these victims. They usually hate good people or others who are normal, happy, beautiful, positive, successful, or trying to do well. They have a jealous mentality and wish that good people lose their health, wealth, fame, goodwill, or happiness, as they lack abundance and success consciousness.

    7. The amount of time they waste being grumpy and angry. Unable to change their mood or behaviour in a timely way. Sometimes for years.They lack a joyful disposition. Their smiles, if any are fake and not from within the heart. Their apology is any is also false and a hoovering mechanism to control you and keep you involved in their repetitive dramas.

    8. Their body language…aggressive movements, pointed finger while speaking, speaking with teeth gritted, upset tone, negativity, saying ‘huh’, walking up and down angrily, way of handling things around them as if they are throwing things, shouting, speaking as of they are scolding or irritable. They lack loving kindness, grace, gratitude, and gentleness.

    9. Their lack of sensitivity to how someone else feels, or what someone else wants to do. They go on doing what they want and lack intuition and empathy.

    10. They way they want to control events and relationships and the way they want others to schedule things as per their timetable, or want people to obey them entirely and not be included in decision making. You are never an equal. They are like the boss or teacher. They are in control and the world must revolve around them.

    11. Strong expectations from others to be ‘perfect’ and doing things a certain way instead of allowing uniqueness, individuality, and personal flaws, or mistakes. They are unusually intolerant of others.

    12. Tantrums and mood swings that can be explosive …and they blame it on others. They say ‘you should not have said anything to me’, ‘you made me hurt you’ or ‘its impossible to have a conversation with you’ or call you names by projecting their traits on to you.

    13. Reverse blaming is a significant aspect of this behaviour. They lack self reflection on their part in the situation. Therefore they make up a false narrative and stick to it. They try to get sympathy from others by acting as if they are being victimized, but refuse to see how they were harming or hurting others.

    14. Heart is not used often. They can be hot headed, rash, and bad mouthed. Pleasantness and genuine loving warmth are not their strongest trait.

    15. Condescending and disrespectful attitude reflecting that ‘they don’t care’, or ‘why should they care’, thereby minimising your worth. They are not thankful for you, for your work, your talents, your support, or your inputs, but expect you praise them for what they do.

    16. Lack of good listening skills. Talking too much and draining energy out of others, even if others seem to not be interested or are tired, sleepy, unwell, etc. They are just not alert to what someone else might feel, need, or want, emotionally or physically. At times they also take away money and your valuables and not just your time. But usually they are emotional and energy vampires who feed off energy of others.

    17. They will have a few friends whom they keep around by pretending to care about them so that they have some flying monkeys or enablers to spread hate with or to seek support from in continuing their behaviour. Some of these people are cunning themselves, while others are vulnerable and easily manipulated.

    18. They can be cheats in romantic relationships. They are never satisfied with one person and don’t display loyalty. They might want sexual relationships with someone else while being married or in a committed relationship. The person they are with is like a puppet or servant.

    19. They train people over time to love them, do things for them, expect bad behaviour from them, get used to their demands, to satisfy their needs, to be there for them. They might even have a generous supply, or a ‘harem’ to feed from.

    20. You will feel so much better when not in their presence. You will realise you were just ‘used’ to them, to having them around due to a trauma bond, and were infact used ‘by’ them. You might have even absorbed or reflected some of their attitudes, traits, or energy.
    You will see for yourself that you will indeed be a better version of yourself on your own, as if a negative energy has left you when you are not with them. A sense of relief and peace of mind.

    I hope this detailed article helped someone.
    For one to one help, tips, coaching, and advise over phone or video calls, alongside the wisdom of Tarot for relationship advise, please contact me via http://www.askswati.com